I’m a Grill Watcher

The old gas grill cover tore. They all do that eventually, especially in freezing weather, with the good ones lasting a few years. With a big snow storm forecast for tomorrow night, I wanted to get a new cover. I usually get grill covers at Ocean State Job Lot, but this time I went to Lowe’s, because it’s closer. Lowe’s ended up being a longer distance.

The first cover I bought today was supposed to be the right size, but it was too small. I returned the cover and got a refund. A bigger one of the same type was 15 bucks more, $45 vs. $30, so I bought a cheaper large cover for $25. The size was good, but it didn’t last a minute, because it ripped immediately. Back to Lowe’s I went for another refund and to buy the $45 cover. Tt’s okay, except it doesn’t have the side handles as shown on the box. All I care about is it fits and doesn’t get torn.

So, let’s see. That’s three 9-mile round-trips, for a total of 27 miles, compared to the almost 20-mile round-trip to the Job Lot. Can you tell I couldn’t think of anything else to write about?

Well, nothing, that is, other than Trump and Musk. Why are there kiddie programmers, with no financial system experience or expertise, looking at the Treasury’s payment system, unless they intend to do some coding. To what end?

A Cancer Story

I’m originally from the Midwest. My big sister returned there to attend university, and she’s lived there ever since. When her best friend passed away, I was surprised to learn that the woman’s sister lived a thousand miles away, just half a mile from me. After my cancer diagnosis last year, I was further surprised to hear that the nearby sister had exactly the same cancer I did.

We met four times for long talks. First, after my diagnosis; second, after the surgery; third, in the middle of my treatments; finally, while I was recovering. Her cancer was more advanced than mine, and she had been undergoing treatments for eleven years. In between visits we texted words of encouragement.

Her last message was on January 3. She passed away yesterday.

Perhaps my cancer will return and the same fate awaits me. There’s no point in worrying about that now. I’m mourning the death of my new friend.

Mister Rogers’ Beach Party

A while ago, I commented that the personal philosophy expressed by Charles Schulz in an interview reminded me of Fred Rogers. That got me thinking I should watch the Tom Hanks movie, A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood. I’ll do that soon.

As a kid, despite being older than the target demographic, I watched Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood on New York TV. It had a quiet, reassuring tone, puppets, and a nice woman.

The reassuring tone relieved some of the stressful atmosphere occasionally experienced at home. I was a fan of puppet shows even before learning that Bob Clampett’s Beany & Cecil, a beloved cartoon series, began as a puppet show. The nice woman on MisteRogers was Betty Aberlin or, as she was called, Lady Aberlin.

Betty Aberlin on Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood, 1968

Poking around the Net for more background on Aberlin, I was surprised to see these images. Whoa, sexy Betty!

Betty in a swimsuit that looks more like a baby-doll nightie? It couldn’t be from Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood, could it? Actually, yes. Episode 1425, from 1975. Betty was teamed with hunky Bert Lloyd as her brother.

Betty Aberlin and Bert Lloyd

Lady Elaine, a puppet as an evil witch, expresses an interest in the “nice-looking young man,” who is forced to exercise in a cage for her entertainment. It reminded me very much of something else from 1975.

It’s interesting that Fred Rogers, who was careful in developing his program material, would present physically attractive adults in this way. It’s as if he were gently and innocently suggesting the desires that inevitably, and necessarily, come with growing up.

Here’s the episode, with Betty falling in love with a swan and rescuing “Rocky Horror” from the evil witch’s clutches. Spoiler alert: It was all a dream!

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